There is a need to become aware of these myths about masturbation for public awareness. Here are some myths debunked.
Masturbation. Don’t be shy to talk about it. It’s not dirty, and it’s definitely not unhealthy.
Despite this, most people react to the word, and the act, as if it’s something shameful or unnatural.
The truth is, not everyone masturbates – and that’s okay.
If you or anyone around you do, that’s okay too.
However, many people still believe in various myths about masturbation.
Some think that it causes male genitalia to shrink, leading to mental issues, or making someone sterile.
These myths need to be debunked to make people aware of this word. Here are some common myths busted.
Masturbation can decrease your sex drive.
Actually, there’s no limit to your sex drive. Your desire for sex isn’t limited, and you won’t run out of orgasms.
No doubt you will reach a point where you’ve had enough for a while. But, masturbating won’t permanently diminish your libido.
It can damage your genitalia.
No, that’s not true. Men, your penis won’t shrink from excessive masturbation, and women, your clitoris won’t be harmed by self-pleasure.
However, be aware that skin chafing can occur, so take care to avoid that.
Married people don’t masturbate
Solo sex is important for personal development, just like sex with a partner. Most men and women masturbate to relax, even in long-term relationships or marriages.
Don’t Worry! Masturbation won’t reduce your semen.
A healthy man’s testicles constantly produce semen, so there’s no need to worry about running out. You won’t use it all up through masturbation.
Some people say that masturbation is unhealthy or abnormal
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and doesn’t cause mental or physical health problems.
However, if it becomes obsessive and starts interfering with your daily life, it’s important to seek help from a sex therapist.
Vibrators ruins sex for women
No, vibrators don’t diminish what fingers, hands, and bodies can do.
Sometimes, they can enhance erotic stimulation for women. And no, women don’t get addicted to vibrators.
Masturbation sends you to hell
Actually, it’s quite the opposite, if you really know what I mean.
Pleasure After Porn: Is it Possible?
Today, society is on the tap of porn. We have reached a place where self pleasure and porn is inseparable for most of us.
Masturbating without porn may feel like something dull.
Will masturbating after a reboot cause you to relapse? No, but only if you stay disciplined and prevent the habit from escalating again.
Redefine self-pleasure by avoiding any porn triggers.
Without the intense stimulation of porn, your orgasms won’t trigger the neuro-chemical cycles associated with addiction.
It sounds unpleasant, but the healthiest way to masturbate during a reboot is without porn and without relying on fantasies.
Breaking the link between porn, fantasy, and pleasure is tough but achievable.
When you focus solely on the physical sensations, you reduce the risk of things spiraling out of control.
If you do visualize anything, ensure it’s first-person and realistic, not memories of porn.
Also, use lubrication and gentle stimulation.
Most guys develop the habit of using too much force, which can desensitize you for real sex.
You need to relearn how to pleasure yourself, you’ll reconnect with your body in a mindful way. It will feel like you’re exploring your body for the first time.
Eliminating porn fantasies will make you more present with your pleasure, leading to better sex.
Worried you won’t enjoy it without porn? After rebooting, your brain rewires, and your body’s pleasure response recalibrates.
You’ll find you’re more sensitive to touch, making it easier to enjoy a softer approach than you’re used to.
